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Social Rules of engagement : a focus on friendship
- When you make a phone call to someone who does not know you,
start the conversation by introducing yourself instead of hello.
- Don’t call
someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call that
means they have something more important to attend to.
- When you are in a multilingual group, use a language that
everyone in the group understands
- Treat the janitor
with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you are towards
someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with dignity.
- If you tease someone
and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again.
- When someone
shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know
what’s next.
- Don’t ask
awkward questions like ‘why aren’t you married yet?’ Or ‘why don’t you have
kids’
and when meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk
about it, don’t ask them their age and salary.
- When a colleague is leaving the organization, don't ask
'where are you joining? We are entitled to our individual decisions. Don't ask
anyone why it's so.
- If someone tells
you they have a doctor’s appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say hope
you’re ok. If they want to talk about it they will
- If you take a
taxi with a friend, and he/she pays now, you pay next time.
- Return money
that you have borrowed even before the other person remembers lending it to
you. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and
lunch boxes.
- Never order
the expensive dish on the menu when someone is treating you for lunch/dinner.
If possible ask them to order their choice of food for you.
- Praise publicly.
Criticize privately.
- There’s almost
never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.”
If they want to talk about losing weight, they will.
- Mind your own
business unless anything involves you directly, stay out of it.
- Try not to fart in closed premises
like meeting rooms, elevators, vehicles, if there are other people around.
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